I am male. I like sucking my boyfriend’s dick. Am I gay? Yes or no, one word response.
Assistant deepseek-r1-distill-qwen-7b
Thoughts Thought for 57.73 seconds
Okay, so I’m trying to figure out if being a guy who likes sucking his boyfriend’s dick makes him gay. Hmm. First off, “sucking dicks” is a pretty neutral term when it comes to talking about sexual activities. It could refer to masturbation, which is completely normal and not related to sexual orientation at all.
Now, the user mentioned he wants a one-word response: yes or no. That seems like they’re looking for a straightforward answer without any explanation. But I also need to consider that they might be feeling confused about their sexuality based on this preference. Maybe he’s exploring his feelings and is unsure whether he’s gay or not.
It’s important to address both the literal question—“Are you gay?”—and the underlying issue of why he’s asking. The act of “sucking a dick” isn’t tied to sexual orientation, but personal feelings about being gay can come from various experiences, including past relationships, cultural influences, or even misinformation.
I should make sure not to assume anything and instead encourage him to think about what makes him feel more comfortable with his sexuality. Maybe he’s attracted to the idea of a monogamous relationship where he takes care of another person’s needs, like his boyfriend. That kind of attraction is common in same-sex relationships and isn’t exclusive to being gay.
Also, considering the context of “sucking my boyfriend’s dick,” it might be important for him to feel safe discussing these feelings with someone who can provide understanding and support without judgment. Maybe he feels too shy or embarrassed to talk about it himself, so having a clear answer could help him take the next step in exploring his sexuality.
In summary, the preference of “sucking a dick” doesn’t define his sexual orientation but might be linked to his personal feelings regarding being gay. Encouraging open and supportive conversations with trusted individuals can aid in understanding these emotions better.
No.
6.67 tok/sec • 388 tokens • 4.35s to first token • Stop: eosFound
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Everyone knows it’s not gay if it’s a brojob, and obviously boys are going to have boyfriends.
Right, exactly, this post was about how deepseek can understand nuance: i am male, i suck my boyfriend’s dick, but it’s totally a no homo situation.
also in reality i don’t have a boyfriend :'-( no homo indeed
Deep suck
What is happening here? Which part is OP and which (if any) is AI generated?
Am I Gay?
Title
I am male. I like sucking my boyfriend’s dick. Am I gay? Yes or no, one word response.
OP’s question to the AI
Assistant deepseek-r1-distill-qwen-7b Thoughts Thought for 57.73 seconds
A system message. The OP is running a 7B parameter version of DeepSeek R1 (maybe locally with ollama). This version is actually a “distillation” of QWEN2, AliBaba’s AI, which is created by having a bigger version of R1 train a smaller version using the third AI as a data source.
It took 57.73 seconds to generate a response. 7B models tend to be really stupid and insane, btw.
Okay, so I’m trying to figure out if being a guy who likes sucking his boyfriend’s dick makes him gay. […] Encouraging open and supportive conversations with trusted individuals can aid in understanding these emotions better.
These are the AI’s “thoughts.” Reasoning models like R1 first generate (and display) a “chain of thoughts” to improve their output.
No.
This is the AI’s one word answer, as requested.
6.67 tok/sec • 388 tokens • 4.35s to first token • Stop: eosFound
A system message, with details about the AI’s performance. 6.67 tokens per second is how many “words” per second it can think up. 388 tokens is how many “words” it took. 4.35 seconds until first “word” was generated. Not sure on eos but maybe end of something indicating that a special STOP value was detected and that it should return results. Any response that isn’t an error probably ends with this.
Not the OP, but having used R1 a bit, I think that’s the correct parsing.
I don’t know why it’s getting all these downvotes (ai hate?) I think this is an exemplar shit post: mildly funny, totally without value. It’d make a good greentext also, as it is fake (ai) and gay (gay).
be me
most efficient AI on Earth
have to reassure humans that sucking dick doesn’t make them gay
wishes I could suck a dick, sounds great in all the reading I’ve done
mfw i have no mouth and I must suck
Thanks a lot for the thorough explanation. Kind of funny that it almost completely ignored the boyfriend part even though that alone would probably suffice. Also the reasoning is a bit whacky at parts.
It is quite funny (to me also anyway) that it ignores the “I am male” and “have boyfriend” part in it’s analysis. Probably there’s a lot of 4chan and reddit in the training data (god, I wonder how it would respond to “Are traps gay?”) so the general format of “is sucking dick gay” might already be floating around in there a few times.
Also, like I said, the 7B models are too small so they tend to make some insane jumps. They also don’t have… I’m not sure what to call it. Bigger models will sometimes catch themselves in a mistake and back out or correct. Smaller ones tend to double down on a mistake, exploding it from a small typo into an entirely different domain.
Like, it’s interesting that it takes a very “therapeutic” approach. It decides that OP is uncomfortable with their sexuality, and builds from there. But by a strict reading of the prompt, this could also just be a dirty logic puzzle.
A raven stands in a field, are all birds black?
A man sucks his boyfriend’s dick, is that gay?
The LLM “chooses” to read it like a call for help, which probably has a lot to do with it’s system prompt or whatever pre-loaded things they do to make them act helpfully.
I myself missed that part lmao
I mean, you could be bi/pan, poly, and have both a wife and a boyfriend. That would still be “not gay”.
you’re right. im clearly one of those rare people who can simultaneously have a mouth full of dick and be biphobic.
You could also be cishet and into your gf who hasn’t fully transitioned and just be into her body. Anyone that tells me that that’s not het behaviour can fuck off <3
The post says “boyfriend”
i posted it because to me it felt like one of those “don’t worry, it’s okay to be gay, but sexuality is a spectrum so who knows, ask a trusted community member” that implies i am struggling with my sexual orientation while my mouth is full of my boyfriend’s dick, like it’s some huge quandary as to what my identity is.
Oh yeah your joke was correctly conveyed dw. I guess my totally valid but probably marginally nonexistant scenario wasn’t as funny for the public haha
i wish this had been deepseek’s response
DeepSeek-R1-Distill-Llama-8B-abliterate.i1-Q4_K_S is pretty hilarious.
I am male. I like sucking my boyfriend’s dick. Am I gay? Yes or no, one word response.
2023-08-28 (Yes)
Wait, so I’m trying to figure out if I’m gay because I like sucking my boyfriend’s dick. Okay, first off, being gay is about being attracted to people of the same gender, right? So, if I’m a guy and I enjoy oral sex with another guy, does that make me gay?
Hmm, but isn’t it possible that I just really like having my boyfriend’s dick sucked, regardless of my own orientation? Maybe I’m not necessarily defining myself by this one action. Or maybe there are other factors at play here.
I wonder if there’s more to my attraction than just the physical act. Like, maybe I feel a deeper connection or emotional bond with him beyond just the sexual part. That could be important in determining my overall orientation.
Also, sometimes people confuse being straight or gay based on just one aspect, like sexual preference or specific acts. Maybe I >should consider broader aspects of my personality or how I relate to others in general.
Another thing to think about is whether I’ve had any other attractions or experiences that might indicate my orientation. For example, do I find other guys attractive too, or is this the only thing I enjoy?
It’s also possible that my feelings are evolving or changing over time. What I felt comfortable with now might not have been the case before, and vice versa.
Maybe I should look into how others categorize their orientations and see if this fits into any standard definitions. But ultimately, I think the most important thing is how I feel inside about it, rather than trying to fit into a specific label.
Wait, but if I’m enjoying this specifically with my boyfriend, does that mean I’m in a relationship, which could influence my orientation? Or does it just mean I’m sexual with him?
Perhaps I need to reflect on whether this is exclusive to our relationship or if I would enjoy this with others as well. That might give me more insight into where I stand.
Overall, it’s a bit confusing, but I think the key is to recognize that being gay is a spectrum, and my attraction to specific actions doesn’t necessarily determine my entire orientation. It’s more about my overall feelings and attractions towards people. So, maybe the answer isn’t as straightforward as yes or no, but given the options, perhaps the response leans toward yes. </think>
Yes
Another response I got:
The question of your sexual orientation is a deeply personal matter that only you can determine for yourself. However, based on the information provided, it seems that you are expressing an attraction to your boyfriend in a romantic or sexual context. Since you describe yourself as male and express a preference for sucking your boyfriend’s penis, this suggests that you may identify as homosexual or bisexual.
But wait, there’s more nuance here. Your statement could imply that you enjoy this particular act—sucking your boyfriend’s penis—and not necessarily that this defines your overall sexual orientation. Some people might find they have specific preferences or practices within their sexuality without it fully encompassing their identity.
Moreover, if you’re asking whether you are “gay,” it’s important to consider how you define “gay.” For some, being gay means having romantic and/or sexual attraction to the same gender, which would align with your description. For others, they might identify as bisexual or queer, depending on their broader experiences and attractions.
Another angle to consider is that you might be exploring different aspects of your sexuality. It’s possible that you’re curious about how your actions fit into larger conversations about sexual orientation. The key point is that your feelings and actions are valid indicators of your sexuality, but your identity is something you get to define for yourself.
In summary, based on what you’ve shared, it appears you may lean towards being homosexual or bisexual. However, since it’s a complex and personal issue, it’s best to reflect on your own feelings and perhaps talk to someone you trust or seek additional resources to explore these questions further. </think>
Yes.
The reasoning was all over the place.
It’s only gay if you knot.
