though I never managed to get into Wrath because every time I opened it up I got some decision paralysis/anxiety thing about making a character build and closed it before actually doing anything.

I admit that Wrath had a demoralizing level of “doors closing behind you” choices where doing one thing narrows the rails more and more and denies other choices later. While understandable, it’s also stressful especially if you had a character concept and have to look up how exactly to make that the actual story path.