I didn’t know where to ask and be open about this but this has been bothering me for a while.

Basically, I never had problems with questioning but I’ve been thinking for a while, is it weird that I’m ace as hell, but still find some of these jokes funny, like does that affect my asexuality at all? I always cursed like sailor so that was never the problem, but lately I’ve also started laughing my ass of on this types of jokes, like some stuff from straights is so hilarious sometimes even if I have 0 attraction to it.

So question for any aces here:

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besides the fact that I secretly like getting bitten

, do I still count as 100% asexual even if if I find that stuff funny and make jokes?

  • Soviet Pigeon@lemmygrad.ml
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    1 month ago

    do I still count as 100% asexual even if if I find that stuff funny and make jokes?

    If someone is homosexual and laughs about heterosexual jokes, is the person then bisexual? And how many laughs about those jokes are needed, so that the homosexuality gets transformed into bisexuality? And this is comparable to asexuality, what you tell me asexual jokes and I find them funny. It wouldn’t change my sexuality or it wouldn’t change your sexuality if you laugh about sexual jokes. I mean, are asexual people not able to laugh about things they have no interest, like sexuality? Its not like they lost their humor.

    Everything is fine with you. If you say, that you are asexual, then you are. Laugh about whatever you want. “Weird” is subjective. And I think there is absolute nothing weird about it :)