It’s tough to get used to. For weeks after one of my dogs passed I would see something like a blanket on the couch in the corner of my eye and think it was her, then I’d be reminded she was gone an instant later as I realized. When you say “watering him” I picture him sitting with his mouth open as you pour water over him like a plant haha.
Yeah what a bunch of ponies
Zero routine, I wash my face with warm water in the shower using my hands, maybe once a week I use a simple facial wash. I use a pretty basic body wash with nothing fancy in it and my skin is soft and clear. I also have a terrible diet and don’t drink enough water.
I know plenty of people have to do more to keep from getting flakey skin or acne but this works for me. In my view it seems a lot of skincare stuff is BS marketing, but I think I may not be the norm so I don’t mean to shame anyone that has an intensive routine.
I prefer tofu, I haven’t found it essential to press it but maybe some varieties you need to. I cut open the edge of the pack and squeeze it a little before taking out the tofu to get some water out though. Super simple and no saw dust vibes. If you do press it it’s not very troublesome, it just takes a little extra time but not more than half an hour.
I worked in a ramen restaurant and didn’t press or even cook the tofu, I thought it was odd at first but it became my favorite way to do it because it’s so easy and has a nice texture but it depends on the type. I can’t find the brand we used that I really enjoyed but some have a much less pleasant flavor IMO and probably need more draining.
It was blown out of proportion for sure and tough to follow even at the time it was happening. Most of the deleted comments were from one user who kept making alt accounts to be incredibly insulting to people who were arguing against the changes, I’m not sure if mods figured out who it was for certain but I think it was someone who was banned here already. There was a lot of heated discussion but it doesn’t seem like a massive deal overall and seems to have blown over by now.
Mods made c/counterpropaganda and c/gossip to theoretically replace the two tanks, but their purposes aren’t super clear to people, basically dunk posts are now posted in c/slop.
I saw printouts of Trump’s tweets on the dashboard of private security vehicles in 2020, I feel like it’s been glossed over slightly how much he had a hand in inspiring violence from chuds at that time. There were dozens of missing people related to protests that got little coverage as well, it seems likely it was worse than we even realize.
In addition to the racist name, a statement that recieved a lot of backlash claimed it had ‘white cishet man vibes’, there was discussion behind the scenes about it with other instance admins, supposedly “part of a broader push to reduce misogyny on hexbear and lemmy in general.” You can read all the struggle posts about it and still not understand the full reasoning. Top-down decisions to change site culture with no community input beforehand, and then conflicting reasons given for the changes.
I followed all the posts about it and didn’t really care about the tanks themselves too much, but I don’t think I’m alone in saying I don’t trust or fully understand the decisions made.
With drone warfare continuously progressing, does anyone know a reason a one-way drone couldn’t be used as an anti-air missile potentially?
I thought this was just a bit, they really did it ahah The Onion buys conspiracy theory site Infowars with ‘very stupid’ plans for it
You didn’t kill her, I’m sure you only did what was necessary for her well-being. I’m sorry though, it’s never easy to lose loved ones
Don’t presidents sometimes parden people posthumously? Dear lord the thought hadn’t occured to me before
I’m certain that I read in some statement, I don’t recall where, that the term gossip was chosen specifically because it was frivolous, to emphasize the frivolousness of the posts there. Now it’s said that this is all about reclaiming the term for marginalized people?
Even before I made an account here from my old instance I would notice the user that always said ‘Death to America’ and saw your comments as exemplary posts of proper Hex Thought 
There would never be a show called Gossip Guys.
It’s hard for me to convey how or why it’s a gendered term but this statement is so true, good for pointing it out.
Exactly, I really think the use of the word in a new comm is unhelpful for the stated goals of ‘reducing misogyny’ and white cishet vibes. I suppose not everyone sees the term that way, truly all sorts of people do gossip, but the term itself has typically seemed to be used to reinforce societal misogyny in my view.
I don’t recall who said it but wasn’t the name gossip picked partly because they wanted to emphasize the frivolousness of the posts that would go there? Like they were begrudgingly maintaining part of the old dunk place but wanted to shame it. I agree, in my experience it has “effeminate” and frivolous connotations and is used in media to refer to what those clique-y and rude women do behind your back.
Rename the comm and move on would be great, the issue users took was there was more to it than that and multiple reasons given, behind the scenes discussions, but yeah it was all blown out of proportion I think
10 dollars an hour is unlivable in nearly all of the US, the first job I had was at that wage when it was the minimum where I lived over 12 years ago and it wasn’t enough even then.
Can you explain your reasoning behind deporting immigrants?
And you don’t have to be a communist to enjoy your life in our global commie utopia