Do people revert to being blobs when they go to sleep, become comatose, disabled, or otherwise under the care of another person? The fetus/baby is guaranteed to leave the mother at some point, and evicting it prematurely without a very good reason or regard for its safety would end its life. That is murder. Your argument would justify cutting people off from disability benefits.
Providing a legal service is no more gambling than selling food is. Doctors who refuse are clearly wrong about the risks, as evidenced by the lack of post-Dobbs prosecutions. Mothers are dying because doctors and hospitals are more interested in covering their butts than in providing healthcare.
If society decided that it was acceptable to kill people for having a slightly offensive odor, would you agree? Society used to believe slavery was okay, would you agree with them if you were in that time period? I sure wouldn’t. Fetuses are human beings, and the most sensible definition of person is “human being,” so killing them without a grave reason is murder.
No, babies who are conceived because of rape shouldn’t be aborted. That would be giving the child the death penalty for its father’s crime. You wouldn’t accept that in any other circumstance, why would it accept it here?