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  • Like you’ve been shown that there’s no simple answer over and over again here, but one problem I face hasn’t been mentioned. What if I want to subscribe to communities that I can’t participate in? Not every community is about hobbies, some is people talking about their life which is totally unlike mine and I like to read that. One I always pick as an example is r/arrangedmarriage. I love(d) reading that subreddit to explore a world that is so foreign to me. I’m a white woman from Europe as far removed from marriage as one could be on this earth. Why should someone follow an c/arrangedmarriage I of all people created and mod? Not everyone joins niche communities because they are directly relevant to their life.

















  • Well, it sounds like you’re going after women out if your league because you think they’re attractive and that’s a valid choice. But it is a choice you’re making. It sounds like you could have intimacy if you lowered your standards or increased you attractiveness (gym etc). Or you could abandon dating to not have to face rejections.

    So I think the key to avoid bitterness is to reevaluate if the choice you are making still works for you if it brings up bitterness. Then you can either stay with your choice or switch, if you don’t think any other option brings less negative feelings.

    And if you choose the best option for you, there’s no need for bitterness.



  • Men and women are not a monolith of the noun of the highest order of the highest order of

    Men in a field of a relationship and I don’t speak to her being able for a new app and I don’t speak to her being a person I can’t tell it’s not the best thing I can do to me and you trying not a priority in the world was that I was young adult and you trying for me as well as a small person I don’t need to be able to code it to the first time of my tongue in my life would be so nice and you trying not a good idea for the rest ist you have to do Listen für and see how it works hours for you don’t need you don’t need you don’t need you don’t need you don’t need you don’t need

    Men with it is what they had to say that I don’t think they were in their world but it 🤷 🤔 😏 😌 💯 🤧 🤷 🤔 😏 😌 💯 🤧 🤷 🤔 😏 😌 💯 🤧 🤷 🤔 😏 😌 💯 🤧 🤷 🤔 😏 😌 💯