I would say don’t forget the importance of loving yourself regardless of how you look and you will be more confident in general ♥️

There are girls of all shapes and sizes, do things that make you happy and make you feel like a girl.

If you want to loose weight, the best way to do that is to eat in a sustainable, healthy way and be active. Meaning your diet shouldn’t be something incredibly restrictive, it should be meals that contain all your food groups in reasonable portions, at the same times every day. Your body likes patterns. Allow yourself to have sweets if you want, but of course, everything in moderation.

To be active, go on walks, maybe runs too if you can handle it. Start slow and easy and work your way up to things. That’s the best way to ensure you actually keep at it. I know one thing people talk about a lot is doing a lot of glute exercises like squats to get a nice tight butt.

Maybe start with a walks and then some body weight exercises for each muscle group, and with a slight emphasis on exercises for your glutes and stomach. (Ab workouts like situps, squats for glutes, etc). And then work your way up to running instead of walking and training with weights from there, and look up exercises as you go.

There’s not a true equivalent to the sub in about to recommend, so for the time being you could check out r/femmefitness over on reddit

I do want to reiterate, the more you love yourself regardless of your size, the happier you’ll be. You’re young, try to enjoy your youth without being too hard on yourself.

Also there’s other things you can to to look more feminine.

• make up
• shaving your body
• longer hairstyles
• wearing certain clothes

Take it slow, see what you like, do what makes you happy 😊

I think it doesn’t look bad! And it’s always nice to see OC on Lemmy, the community is alive! Thanks for your post ☺️

These things are definitely over hyped in the hypnos and captions, I find it fun, but I definitely feel like it’s one thing that isn’t always talked about a lot.

For one, it seems like you don’t have any regrets or feel grossed out, so it’s probably safe to say you are at least attracted to men.

There’s a few questions I think you should ask yourself now:

Do you enjoy dressing up/does it excite you?

Do you enjoy being submissive to men? Even in just roleplay?

If the answer to both of those is yes, then you probably are, or at least some sort of femme person.

Maybe the fact that it was super unceremonious made it kind of a bust.

I know certain things for me are only enjoyable if I can tell the other person is loving it, or there was certain build up to a moment. Maybe you’re the same way.