Not OP but I believe OP is showing this as a bad thing. Mom has been incorrectly cleaning the pan so the patina is all gone. The patina is part of what makes cast iron so good to cook with and takes a lot of time or some effort to build up. So it’s sort of like getting something nice and trashing it.
I believe Anon 1 is trying to state the relative importance of various body parts in terms of sexual attraction between a man and a woman. So a man having good abs is like a woman having nice breasts is the assertion.
Anon 2 facetiously took the comparison as literal and drew what a person would look like where abs = tits, etc.