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Cake day: February 11th, 2024

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  • I usually don’t comment here, but I can relate because I had this exact thing happen to me (and I’m still paying for it). I can say from experience that my hospitalization was less pleasant than county jail.

    I can’t afford long-term therapy, but I did manage to glean one useful strategy from my therapist. I made a list of people I can call when I’m feeling suicidal. Not even to talk about my feelings per se, but even just to call and be like, “Hey, how you doing?”

    Some of the people on my list are like, a discord server admin who I trust and who I know won’t mind the call. Doesn’t have to be all close friends and family, but enough that there’s someone to talk to with whom I have some sort of established connection, which is even better than talking to some rando on 988 imo

    I hope this helps. I know what works for me may not work for everyone.










  • Anyone: “Did you know in China they have this cool thing? Just an interesting cultural difference I thought I’d share. Making new friends and learning about the world on this app is so cool :)”

    Someone inevitably: “So you know that as we speak Chinese citizens are being forced at gunpoint to do their hourly salute to the east in honour of Xi Jinping, right? 🙂 And also that they hate you? 🫣 Did you know what they hate you oh my god they hate you so much and are plotting this very moment to get a hold of your ebay browsing data (like all the other american tech corps but wtv 🙄) to undermine our righteous american way of life (which has its itty bitty teeeeeny tiny flaws 😬) but is clearly superior in all ways to China’s constant brutal day to day moment by moment–”

    I really hope you start to deconstruct the McCarthy inside of you. Best wishes to you.