She said on the internet, asking others to normalize it rather than just doing it herself without seeking validation.

You mean doing the math on how a market with limited demand but where almost every man and his dog can start supplying with no overhead is likely to be rapidly saturated?

Damn. Thanks. Can I keep you on retainer to explain all the weird internet memes I don’t get?

In places with high rates of intra-male violence—most of the world throughout most of history—your reputation for masculinity protects you from opportunistic attacks. Being perceived as gay can undermine that reputation.