Welcome to today’s daily kōrero!

Anyone can make the thread, first in first served. If you are here on a day and there’s no daily thread, feel free to create it!

Anyway, it’s just a chance to talk about your day, what you have planned, what you have done, etc.

So, how’s it going?

  • HappycamperNZ@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Oh, there absolutely is a middle ground but as a society we aren’t anywhere near it under the guise of “its for the kids” or tradition. The kids don’t need 20 more toys from the warehouse and 2$ shop that will be played with once then added to the pile.

    Absolutely show your love and appreciation with something - but gifts are meant to be a small part of what the holiday should be.

    • Dave@lemmy.nzOPM
      1·
      11 months ago

      Oh man the kids toys. I’d almost forgotten. We never did work out how to avoid relatives buying cheap fragile toys. Close relatives we screen ideas and so don’t do too badly.

      My family gets together a lot during the year anyway, so gifts and Christmas crackers are the only thing that makes Christmas special 😆

      • HappycamperNZ@lemmy.world
        2·
        11 months ago

        The best response I have makes people irrationally angry - “please do no buy the kids more toys they need for nothing. We plan on buying one good gift for them if you are interested in contributing”. Otherwise x kid would be more than happy with a giant bowl of pasta, y kid would love a slab of salmon, and Z kid wants to go tidy a beach.

        New trampoline, Xbox, holiday to raro will be remembered and used much more than a bigger pile of toys.

        • Dave@lemmy.nzOPM
          1·
          11 months ago

          My go-to is lego. We have a pile of lego (I bought about 9kg off trademe), so any lego anyone buys isn’t going to greatly increase storage requirements. The kids can have a set they play with and when they get bored the set will get tipped into the main pile. You can get $10 sets of lego and $1,000 sets of lego so there is one for any budget (unfortunately no one has gone with the Millennium Falcon option yet).

          And the best thing about lego is I know it will still be getting used in 5 years time.

          Unfortunately for extended relatives they tend to just buy stuff and not ask, but since we have immediate family under control I think we don’t do too badly in terms of not filling the house with crap. There’s only a small handful of inconsistent extended relatives that buy for the kids.

          We also have some other kids to give hand-me-down toys to so have a path to get them out of the house too.