At one point in life … you realize that it doesn’t really matter and you start doing whatever you want. Within reason that is and without hurting or negatively affecting anyone else anywhere.

And you also stop giving a crap about what other people think - especially what they think about you. You learn to appreciate the motto:

‘How others think of you is none of your business’

That is again within reason, because what they think shouldn’t matter to you unless it hurts you or negatively affects your life.