It is less than a week till Christmas and I still have not gotten anything ordered or anything, I have felt depressed and low energy these pasts couple of months, I cannot even keep up with my house chores which angers my roommates. I don’t think they want to hear about my mental health anymore, I think they are gonna be very upset when they bought me thing and I got nothing or just offered cash since I really have no energy to shop for them and I have no idea what to get and this has been a major cause of stress these past couple of weeks on top of non stop work, with only one day off in between. I just feel like I am crashing out and wondering if I should just move out and be homeless since I cannot really be the best roommate right now
Tell them in advance that you probably won’t have gifts for them. If they get angry about it, well, they aren’t friends and probably are not very good for you as roommates either.
Getting angry about chores is one thing (and not a very nice one still), getting angry about not getting a gift is absurdly selfish. Especially if they know about your situation.