So I’m walking to an evening class at a local college, it’s dark. There’s a bend just before the junction and as I’m walking across a car comes round way too fast. I had to step back to avoid being hit. I was wearing gloves and as it went past I hit it, no idea why, just instinct and anger.
I carry on walking and I see the driver has pulled over a bit down the road, I was expecting a “sorry are you ok” but she instead shouted “did you just hit my car?”. That set me off, shouting at her that she almost fucking ran me over. Then she says “you don’t have to use that kind of language”, the fucking nerve.
Gave up and just walked off. Wish I’d have smashed the wing mirror or keyed the car or something.
Has anyone else almost been run over and how do you deal with the anger of it?
Your reaction makes perfect sense. Been there too many times. It’s completely insane that some people feel their car’s integrity is somehow equal or more important than the integrity if your body. I’d only keep my mouth shut if I lived in a country / area where guns are prevalent. You don’t know whether the psychopath is armed and crazy or not. In either case, I might simply confront them with:
“No, I did not hit your car, you hit me with your car. What’s your name and insurance policy? I might need those if the pain gets worse and I need medical attention?”
If you are armed you are supposed to pull your piece out and shoot them in the face. Their driving behaviour poses a life-threatening danger to you. You are self-defensing.
IANAL, though, but I really wish what I said is true.