• NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world
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      I don’t wish harm to people even if they didn’t understand what would happen when they encounter the same situation. This is just callous.

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        They understand it perfectly well. They think it won’t happen to them but they’re fine with it happening to others.

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          We may well be talking about someone who received inadequate sexual/reproductive education. Typically the only sex-ed the pulpit provides is “pro-life” propaganda.

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              If this experience didn’t change the patient’s mind about identifying as and voting “pro-life”, I might agree with you.

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                  I didn’t mean to imply her mind was or wasn’t changed. I meant that if it was, I’m unwilling to condemn her. If I knew it wasn’t I might be willing to condemn her. Not knowing whether she changed her mind after, I wouldn’t be willing to condemn her without equivocation.

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              Just because I think we should have legal and safe abortion access doesn’t mean we should root for people to die when it happens to them.

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            Then why did she know to seek abortion care? True ignorance would mean dying during a miscarriage because you don’t know what’s happening and not seeking medical care.

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              It’s likely her doctor told her she needed a DNC or something (without using the word “abortion”) and the patient didn’t realize the state laws would consider that an (gasp) “abortion” until the doctor told her so.