• MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de
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        12 days ago

        Oh no, there’s so much more to be sorry for those people for besides just what they miss out on. I’m actually more prone to being sorry they are so vocal about it.

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          11 days ago

          Someone just being into something doesn’t make me feel like they’re missing out. Not everyone likes the same things.

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            11 days ago

            Again, I don’t care what they are or are not missing out on. I care what they ruin for others, intentionally or otherwise. I’m sad for the rest of us that these sad-sacks are so certain of their majority and righteousness.

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              11 days ago

              I’m sorry but really don’t understand what you’re saying. Are you saying they’re ruining things by turning down a threesome because they’re not into it?

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                11 days ago

                Could be. The obliviousness is far more disappointing though. She might have liked OP better than her boyfriend in the end. At a minimum “I (knowing/unknowingly)turned down a threesome” is lot less pathetic than what we got.