ProfessorOwl_PhD [any]@hexbear.net to chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · 6 months agoI don't really like that the feminist stance on cis marriage is that women should keep their own surname rather than taking the man'smessage-squaremessage-square94fedilinkarrow-up161arrow-down10file-text
arrow-up161arrow-down1message-squareI don't really like that the feminist stance on cis marriage is that women should keep their own surname rather than taking the man'sProfessorOwl_PhD [any]@hexbear.net to chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · 6 months agomessage-square94fedilinkfile-text
Why can’t it be something fun like swapping surnames and then creating a portmaneau or blended name for the kids.
minus-squareniph [she/her]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up21·6 months agoMaybe the reason you think that is internalised normalisation of whiteness though
minus-squareMarxusMaximus [comrade/them]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·6 months agoYou’re probably right. Normal was also a really poor choice of word.
Maybe the reason you think that is internalised normalisation of whiteness though
You’re probably right. Normal was also a really poor choice of word.