Neurodivergent peeps (and also neurotypical folks too, don’t get me wrong) get interest policed really really often, yelled at for having fun wrong or enjoying things too much or ‘the wrong way
So this is a PSA to all you comrades, make sure you never do this. It’s like mocking someones laugh or smile, it makes them self conscious and ashamed in the moments when they feel happy
Edit: to clarify what I mean by interest policing:
someone having an interest in a topic or hobby that someone deems unacceptable and takes it upon themselves to ruin the persons fun and make them feel like shit for enjoying it. Like an adult liking lego, or a boy playing with a girl toy, anything like this. It’s especially common for neurodiverse people such as folks with autism, very easy for us to be fixated on our particular hobbies or whatever it is, that doesnt conform to traditional definitions of what ‘people your age/gender/demographic should like/ be doing’
basically it’s like if your friend likes a movie you don’t like, and you go out of your way to destroy the joy they have for no reason other than they liked something you didn’t
What if my interest is interest policing people?
then you’re a bastard, sorry I don’t make the rules
Well this sounds like interest policing to me
Anime is still shit
basically it’s like if your friend likes a movie you don’t like, and you go out of your way to destroy the joy they have
Yes, to pick a random example out of nowhere, if your friend really liked, say, Zootopia…
I’m sorry your friend is a lib 😔
i have adhd and a bunch of other disorders, i have special interests, i don’t want people to treat me like a baby
Can you elaborate on what “interest policing” is?
someone having an interest in a topic or hobby that someone deems unacceptable and takes it upon themselves to ruin the persons fun and make them feel like shit for enjoying it. Like an adult liking lego, or a boy playing with a girl toy, anything like this. It’s especially common for neurodiverse people such as folks with autism, very easy for us to be fixated on our particular hobbies or whatever it is, that doesnt conform to traditional definitions of what ‘people your age/gender/demographic should like/ be doing’
basically it’s like if your friend likes a movie you don’t like, and you go out of your way to destroy the joy they have for no reason other than they liked something you didn’t
I see. Make this about “gaming” and this place will have a real struggle session.