This happens to me when I rarely open up Facebook. I’d see someone I was obsessing over in the 10s, and now I just wonder what I was ever feeling with them. It’s not like something happened and they’re massively different, they’re more or less the same. Really the world changed a lot and I’m not the 
I used to be.
I’m not dating anyone new now. But if I had to judge someone as hot, they would have many of the following characteristics:
- left of some soft (Marxist, Anarchist, hell I’ll date a decent socdem)
- mask wearing
- vegan
- high empathy, worry about the suffering of others
- reader
- actively organising something in their community
To be honest, I had a pretty basic taste in dates back in the day. If anything, this should be a self-crit.
They have a cat? one of my friend’s cats regularly munches on her hair while she sleeps
That’s rough though, I can definitely relate to just being like “but they like me that never happens” to excuse shit just not working
From the pictures I got sent there was no change. They’d also claim to suddenly have different colored eyes or a different colored aura. It was not normal stuff they were saying.
yeahhhh I kinda figured I honestly just thought the cat thing was funny